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Black Tie Optional can be frustrating to guests because its ambiguousshould you wear a tuxedo, or not

Styles that are fitted at the bodice and flare out into a full, floor-kissing skirt will definitely land you on the hosts best-dressed list

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That isnt to say that you cant experiment with these different kinds of styles, but a medium-sized bow tie is going to be your best bet in terms of longevity and proportionality